What should you do if you are not sure of the right utensil to use during a meal?

Observing the host is a very effective strategy when you are uncertain about which utensil to use during a meal. The host is typically knowledgeable about the dining etiquette and will often demonstrate the appropriate behavior. By watching their actions, you can gain cues not only about the correct utensils to use but also about the overall etiquette of the meal, including how to approach each course. This method allows you to adapt to the situation smoothly and shows respect for the host's preferences and the formalities of the event.

Asking the person next to you can create uncertainty about etiquette, while guessing might lead to using the wrong utensil, disrupting the dinner experience. Using your fingers might be acceptable in casual settings, but for formal dining, relying on observation is usually the best practice.